Thursday, September 9, 2010

"Three"

Well, Maya has officially made it to 3. We had her party on Labor Day weekend, a week before the fair. A lot of the family made it up and we did the simple task of grilling burgers and hot dogs with our new grill. The weather could not have turned out better--mid 70s. And, the Tigers also came back and beat Illinois.

Maya got a lot of clothes and added to her baby collection. I honestly don't know how many she has now (probably 15 or so), but she loves every one of them. She has such a mothering instinct. I always forget to grab the camera, but she often lines up all her babies on the floor face down and then proceeds to find blankets for all of them.

Thanks to all of you who came up. We know it's a long trip, but it's great because Maya is really getting to know the rest of her family.

That same weekend, we also decided to visit the Botanical Gardens for the Japanese festival. We had the day off and it was something to do that did not involve us sitting at home (which tends to bore the heck out of our 3 year old). It was a pretty cool place. They have a playground area that even I didn't want to leave--tree houses, bridges, slides, water fountains. Maya was having one of her moments and we basically had to drag her into the playground. But, she quickly changed attitude and started to explore. After that, we caught a Japanese drumming show and caught a snack at the cafeteria. But then Maya started to get tired so we opted to leave. We hadn't even made it half way through the park. But luckily we have a membership and can go back and see the rest of it.

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

All Good Things Come to an End

Two weeks ago, Laura (Ben's teacher) notified us that she was quitting. She and her husband were moving and she had found a job closer to home. The funny thing is that 2 1/2 years ago, we were so nervous leaving Maya with a complete stranger. But, we were so blessed to have Laura help raise both of our kids. She spoiled them both, but also always kept us up to speed with their development. She wrote a letter to Ben saying that he was her favorite, but I'm sure all the kids' letters said that. But, it sure makes us feel good.We had a little problem at day care with the interim teacher, but that has been resolved. And fortunately, Ben's next teacher starting when he turns 1 will be Jennifer, who helped Laura in the nursery with both Maya and Ben. When we heard that, Lezlie and I were very happy.

Today, Maya officially transitioned to the 3-4 year old room. For the past month, Maya has really been resisting going to school. And, I think it was because all the big kids that she knew well had already been moved up. When she starting doing partial days in the big kid room, they said it went so well, they would make the official transition sooner. So, we'll see how things go. One of the teachers had been Maya's teacher before in the 2-3 year old room, and she once whispered to me that Maya was her favorite. Again, I'm sure they tell all the parents that, but hey, I'm gonna believe every word they say.

Saturday, August 14, 2010

Rockaway Beach 2010

This year, Lezlie and I didn't have the vacation time we had in years past, so we were only able to stay in Rockaway for 3 nights. But, we still made the most of it. We kept telling Maya we were going to "Raway Bee" but she had no idea. I have a feeling she will remember next year, though. I think she has associated that place as the place where she can swing for 3 hours a day, swim in the pool another 3 hours, and play with her cousins the rest of the day.Last year, Maya was a bit of a bear in the pool. She wanted to swim in the big pool, but didn't want any of us to touch her, not realizing if we didn't she'd quickly sink to the bottom. This year, we had a life-preserver. With that, she got real brave and started jumping into the pool. Then, she insisted we go to the deep end and jump off near the ladder. Then, I persuaded her to jump off of the diving platform. She loved it and did not want to stop. Of course, Daddy got wore out quickly but I was able to last.

Ben loved the pool too. He let everyone just pull him around in his floating device. He spent the rest of the time giggling at Maya. Mommy and Daddy especially appreciated all of the help everyone provided. When Ben would start squirming, he would just get passed off to the next person. Everyone kept commenting how big he was. Ya, like we didn't know that. But, after holding Macy, I had a greater appreciation.

We don't get too many opportunities for generational pictures so we had to take advantage in Rockaway. After thinking for a bit, I realized that Ben is the only 4th generation Heimsoth boy descending from Grandpa Lambert. It's hard to imagine but all the other grandkids either haven't had kids yet or have had all girls. That will soon change with Tim and Rebecca's boy, but for now, he's the only one.Since, Rockaway, Ben's legs have been getting a lot stronger. He started by pulling himself up and he has recently just starting to stand up on his own, without any leverage or help. No steps yet alone but he did take a couple with his walker. So, I'm betting he will be walking in a few weeks.

Friday, July 30, 2010

Changing So Fast

Time is flying by so fast and things are changing all of the time. Maya is talking more, Ben is becoming more mobile, and unfortunately, Vinnie is getting older. I'll start with the bad news. I'm sure many of you are aware but I will reiterate. Lezlie took Vinnie to the vet a couple months ago for a routine checkup. Just when the checkup was about done, Lezlie thought to ask the vet about how Vinnie walks. We've noticed for quite awhile that he sometimes drags his feet. But, we simply thought that he was being lazy. But, for the past year, he has been slipping a lot on our kitchen and hallway floors. The vet watched him walked and noticed it right away. Long story short, after blood tests and x-rays, he has been diagnosed with Degenerative Mylopathy (DM). What does that mean? Basically, his nervous system is breaking down, and he is losing muscle mass and feeling in his hind quarters. Chances are, it will continue to get worse, but we're taking it in stride. Let's just say he's getting babied like you would never believe.Now, on to Maya. She is definitely talking a lot more. But, she still has her own pronunciations. For the life of me, I can't get her to say yes. Her pronunciation is "da". And, like every other toddler, she starting to ask the normal questions. "What's that?" and "Who's that?" is pronounced "dat?"Maya has also taken to a new Sesame Street book that goes over the ABCs. Our normal routine is to sing the ABC song and then go through the letters and speak the letters. She soon started to speak several of the letters without coaching. She gets lost around F and then again at M but once she gets on track again, she quickly continues. Finally, the other day, she sung the song with Lezlie. I know this isn't that big of a deal but as parents, we love to see progress in the little things.

We also have a peddler now. Last year, the first word out of her mouth after walking in the door was "outside". Now, it's "ride bike outside Dada" while nodding her head in a very influencing way. It is pretty cute to see her peddle around the cul-de-sac with a big smile on her face. Our Parents-as-Teachers lady said that when she can peddle, she will soon be able to poddy. So, two weeks ago, we took the plunge and started putting Maya in panties. She did okay at first. A couple times she started to go in her pants and finished in the toilet. But, most of the time she would just go. Fortunately, she told us right away so we know she got it. From there, she told us she had to go. We would race her to the bathroom and then she would say she didn't have to go anymore. And of course, 2 minutes later, she would go. But now, after only 2 weeks, I'm proud to say she hasn't had an accident in 3 days. She's going poop and pee in the poddy. We continue to ask her if she needs to go a lot. Not that we don't trust that she'll tell us. It's just that we're not sure there will be a bathroom close enough that she can hold it from the time of telling us to the time she goes. But, we are definitely very proud of her. It seems like so many of these big transitions have been so easy. Its almost like its training us more than its training her.

Last but not least, Ben. Lots of changes with him. He started crawling on June 24th and has been going strong ever since. Not surprising, he follows Maya and Vinnie around everywhere. No matter what, he always wants to play with what Maya is playing with. If she's playing with a puzzle, I can give him a puzzle and he'll still want to play with hers. So, the sibling rivalry has begun. She gets a little frustrated sometimes, but she is doing pretty good. Currently, for the most part, you can take whatever away from Ben without him fussing as long as you replace it with something else. So, when Ben gets something of hers, we simply ask her to get something else for Ben to play with. But I have a feeling that won't last too long.
Two weeks ago, Ben started pulling himself up. That reminds me, I need to lower his crib before he jumps out. He's even let go of what he's holding and stood for a few seconds. I'm betting he will be walking around furniture soon. But until then, I'm sure he'll continue his monkey stage of crawling all over us.
With all these changes, we have gone through a lot of sickness. He had double eye infections, some unexplained rashes, and black eyes that the doctor thought was either allergies or eczema. He's also had runny noses and had to go through breathing treatments a few times. We were going to try and get his 9 month pictures this weekend, but his eyes were black again so we had to cancel. But, they seem to be looking better today. Not knowing what the real cause of the sickness was, we did a lot of house cleaning, had Vinnie shaved, and have also made a much better effort keeping his skin moisturized. And, so far so good. I'm just praying that this all wasn't caused by a dog allergy.

When he is healthy, the nights aren't too bad. He still wakes up once a night, but most of the time, he has one span of 7 hours of sleep. And the doctor said that 7 hours is technically sleeping the night. But, we'd still like to see that change to 10 hours of sleep and no feedings.